How to Activate Your Network After a Layoff
Most jobs come through people, not portals. Here is how to reach out after a layoff without feeling needy, including messages you can actually send.
Job boards feel productive because they are easy. You can apply to twenty roles before lunch. But the uncomfortable truth is that most roles get filled through people, and your warm network is the fastest path back to work. The problem is that reaching out after a layoff feels awkward, so most people avoid it. Here is how to do it without the cringe.
Start with who, not what
Do not start by deciding what to say. Start by listing who to contact, in priority order.
- Former managers and close colleagues. They have seen your work and will vouch for you.
- People one step removed. Former colleagues who moved to companies you admire.
- Friends in adjacent roles. They hear about openings before they are posted.
You do not need a huge list. Ten to fifteen genuine contacts is plenty to start.
Lead with a clear, low pressure ask
The reason outreach feels needy is vagueness. "Let me know if you hear of anything" puts all the work on the other person. Be specific and make it easy to say yes.
A message that works looks like this:
Hi Sam, my role at Acme was cut last week, so I am starting a search. I am focused on senior product roles at early stage startups. No pressure at all, but if anyone comes to mind I should talk to, I would be grateful for an introduction.
It is short, it is honest, and it asks for one concrete thing.
Match the channel to the relationship
- Text for people you are close to. Keep it casual and brief.
- LinkedIn for professional contacts you have not spoken to in a while.
- Email when you want to share a little more context or attach a resume.
The same message should be phrased differently depending on where you send it. A text should feel like a text, not a press release.
Make it a habit, not an event
The mistake is treating networking as one big push. Send a few messages every day for the first two weeks. Reconnecting with five people a day for ten days is fifty conversations, and conversations are where opportunities actually come from.
If writing each message from scratch is the thing stopping you, Scout will draft outreach for each contact, tuned to the channel and your background, so all you have to do is hit send. The hardest part of networking is starting. Once the replies come in, momentum takes over.
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